This one is from the February 28, 2011 issue of OK Magazine. (Yes, I know it’s only the 18th but this is how these magazines are dated.)

Patti Stanger is known for her tough love approach on her show The Millionaire Matchmaker. She has a book that you can find in the Reading Annex section of my web site. It’s tempting to ignore her advice or blow it off but it’s actually very good. She has a new DVD out called Married in a Year. It seems simplistic but it’s very accurate. I definitely recommend it.

Here are her tips for starting out from OK Magazine.

Get out of the House. “Find two things that you’re interested in, whether men are involved or not, Patti tells Ok!. A happy girl attracts a happy guy. When you’re doing things for yourself, he’ll show up.

Get Online. “It’s your best bet,” says Patti. “You can hide in your underwear, put up your prettiest picture and meet people you normally wouldn’t.”

It only takes three Dates. “If you don’t feel the chemistry by then, move on.” Patti says. “But make him your firend and use him as a referral. Give him to your girlfriends and let him give you to his friends.”

Know you deal Breakers. “The are a million. If he drinks too much, talks about other women, is insensitive - get out.” Patti advises. (Article by Valerie Nome).